In short: identify the right type of proceedings (uncontested or contested), gather evidence lawfully, request interim measures concerning the home and the children without delay, and remember that the division of matrimonial property is a separate action from the divorce itself.
A divorce is not only the end of a marriage: it is the process in which custody, maintenance, compensation and property division — matters that will shape the years that follow — are decided. The points below apply at every stage.
1. Choose the right type of proceedings
If the parties agree on every consequence of the divorce, an uncontested divorce is available; otherwise the divorce is contested. An uncontested divorce concludes far more quickly, but every clause of the protocol will bind you afterwards, so it must be reviewed carefully before signing.
2. Gather evidence lawfully
In contested proceedings, proof of fault is decisive. Messages, witness evidence, bank records and social media content may all be used — but evidence obtained unlawfully, such as covert recordings that violate privacy, may be excluded and can expose you to criminal liability.
3. Do not delay interim measures
Interim maintenance, arrangements for contact with the children and the use of the family home may all be ordered for the duration of the proceedings. These requests should be set out in full in the initial petition.
4. Property division is a separate action
Liquidation of the matrimonial property regime is claimed in separate proceedings and is subject to a limitation period running from the date the divorce becomes final. Under the regime of participation in acquired property — the default regime since 2002 — each spouse is in principle entitled to an equal share in the value of assets acquired during the marriage.
5. Cross-border matters
A divorce granted abroad must be recognised by a Turkish court before it is entered in the Turkish civil registry. The foreign decree must be final and accompanied by an apostille and a sworn translation. Conversely, Turkish decrees often require corresponding steps abroad.